异地恋辩论英文版
Debate topic: Can long-distance relationship last for a long time or not?
正方一辩:
For college students, the two sides in love need to be soberly aware that the present separation is for a long time to get together, so they need to create a better future, encourage and support each other, and strive for a common goal.Some people once said that love is a kind of strength, which can make a person get encouragement and stimulation, and be more creative and impulsive, and love the world more.Long distance love can last for a long time.First, with the development of science and technology, the relationship can be maintained through the Internet, such as QQ, wechat and other social software.Moreover, with the convenient transportation, you can get together with each other quickly by plane and high-speed rail.Finally, there is a saying that distance produces beauty.Long time separation can treasure the time of gathering and bring surprise.反方一辩：
Honorable judges, teachers, my fellow debaters.Our side firmly believe that"Long-distance relationship cant last long".Following are some aspects which can support our argument.First, meeting is the best way to maintain a relationship.A lot of misunderstandings and quarrels, knot that cant be solved in any case, and lengthy debate, cant compare with a hug and a coquetry when we meet.But long distance love just lacks this most important link.As long as there is any contradiction between two people-even no contradiction is needed, plain time will temper the passion and favor of both sides, and eventually become a mechanical greeting and expression.At this time, in addition to accepting, we can only accept.Long distance love can only let you have a "boyfriend / girlfriend"role, but cant get more real feelings of having a lover.Second, the reduction of common topics.The pace of your life is totally different.There is nothing in common in your circle, people you meet, time plan and content.As a result, the two peoples common topic may always be limited to the memories of a short period of experience together, and they will be bored sooner or later.In addition, the increasing fresh memories of both sides in their respective lives make their feelings more and more weak.Third, the cost of long-distance love is high, and it is easy to lose long-term support.For ordinary office workers and students, long-distance love itself is a kind of investment with high cost and greater pay than return.Perhaps, in the period of hot love, the feelings of both sides can cover the realistic factors, so that you can ignore your repeated efforts.No matter how hard or tired you are, you will feel worthwhile at the moment when you see each other;But after a long time, the passion is weak, the experience of loss is more, people begin to instinctively weigh the "value"of this matter.Piles of tickets and a lot of material expenses, personal time on the way back and forth, endless waiting due to time conflicts between the two sides...All of them are no longer consuming feelings.Thats all, thank you.正方二辩：
We believe that true love can overcome all difficulties.Long distance relationships can be difficult to maintain, but there are actually many ways to overcome them.First of all, with the development of technology and the popularization of the Internet, long-distance couples can use mobile phone WeChat and QQ to keep in touch, and these apps also have the function of video calling, which can well help couples to contact and understand each others life in different places.Secondly, the traffic is more and more convenient, peoples travel is more and more convenient.Especially after the emergence of high-speed rail, peoples travel is more convenient.It takes only four hours to travel from Shanghai to Beijing by bullet train.So couples can easily take high-speed trains to each others cities for dates on weekends.Finally, we believe that proper separation is helpful to improve the relationship between couples.Whats more, getting together after a long time away can actually increase the sense of surprise between the couple, and the sense of surprise can increase the freshness between the couple.So we think long distance relationships can last for long time.反方二辩：
First, we do not deny that true love can cross the distance, but the distance is a killer of killing true love, a long time apart will continue to shorten the duration of love, just as our first argument stated.Meanwhile, I would like to give a positive answer to your three questions.First of all, although technology enables people from different places to have the opportunity to chat and meet on video, compared with two people who can be together face to face, it has been much less emotional temperature.If a relationship gradually loses its temperature, then the relationship can not last much time.Second, the convenience of transportation does provide more ways for long-distance couples to get together, but two peoples different life rhythms and different schedules make it rare for two people to have free time to meet at the same time.Moreover, since it is a long-distance love, then the high cost of transportation has become a burden on each others lives.In the normal living conditions of ordinary people, it is not supported to often travel long distances to meet, so the number of times of meeting through this method can be counted on ones hands all the year round.Finally, while a brief separation can improve a couples relationship, a long separation can also provide enough surprise to meet, but more often without the companionship of each other.Two people get together because they like each other, and each others company provides a warm opportunity for each other.Two people who meet frequently can have more common topics and similar circles, and the similarity of thinking and life style can promote the warming of feelings between two people.Long distance relationships dont easily provide that, and if you focus on the long lost surprise as an instant fire, youre missing out on a lot of mutual companionship.Therefore, the long-distance relationship can not last too long.In more cases, the feelings without temperature gradually fade away and finally go their separate ways.Therefore, in view of these points raised by us, do you still think long-distance relationship can last for a long time? If so, please state your reasons.At the same time, in our real life, long-distance love is more likely to last for a short time, break up quickly, and few people stick to it until they get married in the end.Regarding this general social situation, how should the other partys argument be explained?
正方三辩：
I think long-distance relationship dont have to lead to breaking up.The long-distance isnt the only factor of breaking up.Whats more important thing is that the couple should learn how to communicate with each other effectively and resolve conflicts.Also keeping a long-distance relationship can make the couple have more space for personal growth.The couple will treasure the time when they are with each other.反方三辩：
The requirements of long-distance relationship are strict.Every meeting seemed like a premeditated departure.Peoples feelings need not only written and verbal communication, but also the expression of body language--the eyes of love, the shoulder when tired, the greeting when going to bed and waking up, and the hug when frustrated.Clearly know that hugging can solve the problem, but lovers explain that both sides are tired.People will change, and everyone is subtly changing at every moment.Its hard to get used to changes in people if you dont spend time with them.Its like finding out that your friends are not the same person they used to be.So we think long-distance relationship can‘t last long.反方二辩：
Apart from the distance brought by time and space, the psychological distance can not ignore the thousands of miles apart lover is still a lover?
正方二辩：
Communication is the best way to maintain a relationship and close the relationship.Improper communication distance can be an obstacle, and appropriate communication distance can be a kind of power and we have repeatedly, the space-time barriers to long distance relationships just ordinary a in love obstacles, and the advantages of long distance relationships far outweigh its disadvantages, turn fraud into the profit at the same time also can let the distance namely enhance the sense of responsibility between the lovers, the feeling of trust and understanding.Check the truth of love, let love better sustainable development.反方二辩：
The heart of love is getting along, and we have to acknowledge the pain of distance.The other side always dodges the question, trying to get away with saying that distance produces beauty, that true love stands the test, and that distance is not the problem.The distance is more alienated, more misunderstandings, small three small four, break up so common to turn a blind eye to the fact.Does the other side of the argument already agree with us?
正方三辩：
When you are with your lover in the same city, you may have more conflicts, how will you solve this problem
反方三辩：
The most important thing between people is sincerity and trust.Lovers also need to understand and tolerate each other.How to deal with the estrangement and suspicion that arise from lack of communication in a long-distance relationship？
正方三辩：
I think effective communication is really important.No matter what things happened, the first thing we should consider is to calm down and communicate with each other.A lot of things can resolved through communication.正方四辩：
Dear friends of the other side and all the students present.I am very glad to have this friendship debate with the other side.Next, please allow me to make a concluding statement on behalf of the right.First of all, let me further discuss our argument.We believe that long-distance love in contemporary society is worthy of support, because with the improvement of communication technology and transportation, even if thousands of miles apart, meeting is just a matter of a plane ticket.We should not be restricted by external factors and give up the freedom to pursue love.Therefore, in the pursuit of love, we should be in line with the idea of "distance produces beauty", in another way to protect our love, not to be troubled by the distance, and not die of missing.反方四辩：
Thank you for the debate.After the last round of debate, we are more determined that the long-distance love of college students can not last!
The core of love is to get along.We must admit that distance is difficult.Another debater always avoids this question, trying to avoid saying that distance produces beauty, true love can stand the test, distance is not a problem.Distance leads to more alienation, alienation, small three small four and break up.Yes, do you agree with us?
Please note that:
1.We do not deny that there are successful cases of long-distance love.Here we only discuss the comparison probability.2.Just because you break up and stay together doesnt mean the long-distance relationship is over.Once the two places are separated, we will leave an illusion of each other.As the distance gets closer and closer, we find each other quite different from our imagination.Once you are in different environments and social circles, some habits, ideas and opinions will certainly be different.When the differences overlap, it is not a few that eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.We insist that love is not only a spiritual communication, but also an illusion without physical love.For the vast majority of people, love must be more than just a spiritual dimension.Finally, the argument about true love can stand the test of distance.We believe that there is only one love in true love.Not all love can be true love.Love is an experience, an experience never know, failure is normal, therefore, Fangs concept is inevitably confused.Thats what were talking about.Thank you!
